Radar 7636153. In the presence of large call frames, it's not sufficient

Radar 7636153. In the presence of large call frames, it's not sufficient
for ARM to just check if a function has a FP to determine if it's safe
to simplify the stack adjustment pseudo ops prior to eliminating frame
indices. Allow targets to override the default behavior and does so for ARM
and Thumb2.

git-svn-id: https://llvm.org/svn/llvm-project/llvm/trunk@96634 91177308-0d34-0410-b5e6-96231b3b80d8