shared_ptrify ownershp of PoolEntries in PBQP's CostPool

shared_ptrify ownershp of PoolEntries in PBQP's CostPool

Leveraging both intrusive shared_ptr-ing (std::enable_shared_from_this)
and shared_ptr<T>-owning-U (to allow external users to hold
std::shared_ptr<CostT> while keeping the underlying PoolEntry alive).

The intrusiveness could be removed if we had a weak_set that implicitly
removed items from the set when their underlying data went away.

This /might/ fix an existing memory leak reported by LeakSanitizer in
r217504.

git-svn-id: https://llvm.org/svn/llvm-project/llvm/trunk@217563 91177308-0d34-0410-b5e6-96231b3b80d8