Make SCEVUnknown a CallbackVH, so that it can be notified directly

Make SCEVUnknown a CallbackVH, so that it can be notified directly
of Value deletions and RAUWs, instead of relying on ScalarEvolution's
Scalars map being notified, as that's complicated at best, and
insufficient in general.

This means SCEVUnknown needs a non-trivial destructor, so introduce
a mechanism to allow ScalarEvolution to locate all the SCEVUnknowns.

git-svn-id: https://llvm.org/svn/llvm-project/llvm/trunk@110086 91177308-0d34-0410-b5e6-96231b3b80d8