[x86] Refactor the element insertion logic in the new vector shuffle

[x86] Refactor the element insertion logic in the new vector shuffle
lowering to handle the potential mirroring of 2-element vectors (because
we can't reliably sort them one way) in the caller rather than in the
insertion logic.

This will simplify things considerably as more ways to fail to match the
insertion are added because now we have a nice try and retry point.

git-svn-id: https://llvm.org/svn/llvm-project/llvm/trunk@218980 91177308-0d34-0410-b5e6-96231b3b80d8