Use a base hook rather than a member hook for EventBase callbacks

Use a base hook rather than a member hook for EventBase callbacks

Summary:
Using boost intrusive member hooks in complex inheritence heirarchies under MSVC is [unsupported](http://www.boost.org/doc/libs/1_61_0/doc/html/intrusive/usage.html#intrusive.usage.usage_member_hook), and, in combination with a [regression in VS 2015 Update 2](https://connect.microsoft.com/VisualStudio/Feedback/Details/2555433) that is not fixed in Update 3, the async socket tests that use this compile under MSVC, but fail at runtime because the hook pointer ends up pointing at the node's vtable rather than the hook.
This just works around the issue by using a base hook instead.

Reviewed By: djwatson

Differential Revision: D3724521

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