Revise API to load cert/key in SSLContext.

Revise API to load cert/key in SSLContext.

Summary:
When loading cert/key pair, order matters:
(a) Wrong key will fail to load if a cert is loaded;
(b) Wrong cert will succeed to load even if a private key is loaded.

So this diff adds:
(1) SSLContext::checkPrivateKey() -- must call for case (b).
(2) SSLContext::loadCertKeyPairFromBufferPEM() -- use this if one loads both cert and key. Guaranteed to throw if cert/key mismatch.

Reviewed By: yfeldblum

Differential Revision: D6416280

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