Add a compatibility shim for working with libevent on MSVC

Add a compatibility shim for working with libevent on MSVC

Summary:
MSVC builds of libevent expect `evutil_socket_t` to be `HANDLE` values, but Folly, HHVM, and Thrift all use them as file descriptors.
This adds a `folly_event_set` function that always expects a file descriptor rather than a socket. This also changes the places in Folly that use it.

Reviewed By: mzlee, yfeldblum

Differential Revision: D2874655

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